One of the most challenging things for men in the dating scene is approaching women on the street. Like any learned skill the more you practice approaching women the better you will get. So the easy solution in learning how to talk to women on the street is to simply approach more of them.
But this is not as easy as it sounds. Sometimes you might be walking in one direction and she is walking opposite and toward you. It can be very awkward because she's going one way and you're going the other way so it's not very natural to just walk up and say something. Or is it? The reality is that you can approach anyone, anywhere, and virtually at any time. The biggest obstacle to talking to women on the street is between your left ear and your right ear. If someone ever told me that they could never approach a woman on the street I would simply ask them "who taught you to think that way?" Okay, let's get to the nitty-gritty.
It is very important when you approach a woman on the street that you approach from an angle so she can see you. If you come from her blind spot then make sure you say "excuse me" or "pardon me". This way she will know that you're there and she won't turn around and smack you with her purse. Some dating coaches will advise you to pretend and ask for directions, but most women can sniff out phoniness better than a trained dog sniffing for illegal drugs.
It's just not the best approach. What's far more effective is approaching naturally and communicating that you both have a short period of time and that you may never see one another again. A great way to break the ice is to simply say "excuse me" and then say, "Gosh, you look like you're in a hurry to get somewhere.
" And she'll respond accordingly. You can also say something like, "Y'know, normally I'd walk up to a pretty woman like you and invite you for some great conversation and some drinks, but I'm running late for a meeting. Since we'll probably never see one another again, let me ask you, do you have e-mail?" So what you can do from there to simply pick out a pen and paper or your cell phone and asked her what her e-mail address is. You might get a little resistance at first because she doesn't know you. But you can her assure her that you will send her an e-mail with a funny story and if she doesn't like it then you to do not have to meet for drinks. Once she gives you her e-mail address it is for important that you do not wait too long to e-mail her otherwise she will forget who you are.
So what you should do is either send her an e-mail later that night or the next day. So what do you send her? Send her a funny story. You can go to any news website or entertainment website and find at least one or two interesting stories in the news. You can highlight it and then you can copy it, paste it, and then send it to her.
Now imagine on one weekend if you spent the whole day just accumulating e-mail addresses. The chances of you getting a date out of those e-mails increases substantially. Most men are too afraid to do this because they lack the confidence and they only lack the confidence because they don't practice enough. So, what's stopping you from practicing right now?.
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